Hello, I’m Gili

(they, them, that weirdo)

I'm curious about real human experiences - the messy ones, the profound ones, the ones that make us laugh and squirm and wonder. The ones that surface when we give ourselves permission to feel, to want, to play outside the lines of what's expected.

I create spaces where this exploration can happen - from intimate gatherings to educational journeys, always weaving together deep presence with playful irreverence, precise facilitation with emergent unfolding.

My approach is shaped by classical tantra, consent work, and embodiment practices, with a queer lens that questions inherited definitions and binary thinking. I'm interested in what happens when we explore beyond the edges of conventional categories, when we honor both the mystical and the material, when we get curious about the full spectrum of human experience.

My work with groups began over a decade ago, creating containers for challenging conversations and authentic expression through diversity leadership. This foundation in holding space for transformation, deepened through spiritual practice and facilitation techniques, now extends into creating experiences around intimacy and sexuality. Through regular gatherings and retreats in Berlin and beyond, I witness what becomes possible when we create spaces where everything belongs.

Speaking at Pride in Business Conference, 2013

2013

2018

Don’t push the river, it flows on its own.
— Fritz Perls